Self absorbtion? Are you self absorbed? and if so how to cure yourself.

How to heal yourself from being a self centered person.

I was looking for answers as to why some people are so self centered. So naturally I Googled it and surprisingly there was hardly anything on why people are so self centered sometimes and answers as to how these people can cure themselves from self absorption. Ironically there were hundreds of articles about having a self centered friend and how to deal with them, it seems these non self centered people are very self centered. Instead of looking for answers and solutions they have rather arrogantly attempted to manage their self centered comrades. Anyways, regarding self centered people I will attempt to offer some answers. As a note I am not a psychologist by profession but rather an Attorney. So please bare with me and I would love to hear some feedback.

     I believe that the underlying basis for people being self centered is that deep inside they know that they are not proper. Arrogant and self centered people are aware they are arrogant or self centered. They are aware of this because during the course of their lives they have suffered the pain of loosing friends and relationships because of their arrogant, self centered ways. The question arises, why would they continue to be this way when they know it is so self destructive. Ah if only life was that easy. The problem is that self centered people are aware that their mind is not in order and that something is not right. So their mind becomes obsessed with fixing the problem. That is why they ponder and analyze endlessly. Their mind is aware that there are loving, and caring people out there in the world with healthy friendships and relationships and self centered people desire to be like these people. So the mind becomes self absorbed in order to re organise and clean the itself. The problem is when you are not ordered properly in your mind you don't know what you don't know to make yourself normal. Or correct. This lack of not knowing what you need to know to become "normal" is what causes a general narcissism and more specifically self absorption. Over analyzing things and constantly being paranoid about your behaviour. Your mind is working round the clock to make you right, but it doesn't know where to look. It's like your using a search engine to find out a new Pasta recipe and yet you are typing random words into the search bar. When I use the word "normal" what I mean is normal in your own minds eye. What you view as normal. After all normal is a subjective concept and is different to everyone. The key point here is your mind is being overworked and valuable energy is being wasted. This reduces your energy and your life chances at success.

     Since self absorption causes you to miss social cues on etiquette and behaviour that most people are aware of, it causes you to be further alienated and paranoid. As the pain caused by not having proper relationships and proper functioning friendships gives you a virtual file folder full of painful and harsh memories that again keep your mental hard drive busy. Now your mind is not only trying to make you "normal" it's also trying oh so hard to forget bad memories and remove bad thoughts and put you in a happy productive state. This further ads to your woes as you are now burning tremendous amounts of mental energy in trying to fix your mind, and at the same time trying to forget the very painful, negative and unnecessary experiences your un fixed mind has caused. You turn to drugs, alcohol or other things to give yourself some relief. Or a YouTube, or Facebook  addiction etc. etc. You need these addictions because it gives you relief from the painful memories and takes your minds focus off a constant need to fix yourself. You may also develop an arrogant personality in this situation as you are aware you are not right and thus anyone who tries to help you is hitting a nerve. Its too painful to face the harsh reality and you become defensive and lash out. This arrogance further alienates you and causes more painful memories and makes the mind work even harder and removes the mind and nervous system from it's normal state of relaxation, peace and happiness.  In this state people may take to excessive religious observance to cope with the pain. Also a constant focus on God alleviates the need to focus on fixing yourself and thinking about bad memories. However while these temporary solutions may suffice in the short term they do not solve the problem. While healthy religious people keep God first in their lives, they do not obsess over God, and lead healthy normal lives etc. You are merely sweeping the problem under the rug or looking for temporary solutions.

      As the years go by the person falls further and further behind as their mind is preoccupied with fixing themselves, and avoiding painful memories of that past. Since large portions of the mind are involved in these activities within the conscious and sub conscious realm. The brain power which should be delivering you that Ph.d in Physics or that world Cricket championship is not their. In other words your potential is being lessened greatly.

       The clear minded person is racking up the degrees and the big paychecks with a light cheerful attitude toward life and religion. Now the question is how is this cured?

       As with most great things in life there are no easy answers. However there are effective and concrete solutions that can heal us, and make us better stronger people. I will now offer a litany of these solutions, each individual one will have a drastic impact on your life, however combined can radically reform you into a productive and unstoppable human being.

1. Make an absolute commitment to personal development. Personal development is no longer something which we can choose to put into our lives or not. It is a must, in today's highly developed world, you must make a life long commitment to personal development. This means looking at the masters such as Tony Robbins and Wayne Dyer and beyond. The reason this is so important is because your mind is self absorbed with fixing itself, because your conscious mind is aware that your sub conscious mind is not right. That means a huge part of your conscious mind is wasting valuable energy looking for what is missing, when it doesn't know what its looking for because you lack critical knowledge. This is enough over the years to drive someone to become mentally unstable.

     When you make a personal commitment to personal development you are basically saying I acknowledge their is something not right with me. However instead of ignoring it and letting my mind run all over the place I will narrow the scope into the Bull's eye of personal development. When you look to the masters in the field of personal development you will start to slowly but surely get better.

2. Now the root of the problem may stem from your childhood. You may have been neglected as a child and raised by MTV. Since you were neglected you simply absorbed a lot of filth and trash into your mind. Also you were never guided to the path of personal development. You never had a coach as your parents never enrolled you in any sports or anything else that would have developed you more. I am not here to blame your parents as they did not know any better. They may too have suffered their entire lives. Now is the time to look forward and be positive. You are about to embark on an awesome journey toward happiness.

     Remember since you were never guided by anyone personal development may feel weird to you. It's not, it is normal and healthy to be committed to personal development. Also if you were neglected by your parents or guardians you have two problems. You never really had a positive and loving relationship where you should have had one. Two you have probably absorbed an inordinate amount of filth and junk into your mind. After all we are surrounded by filth, and garbage virtually exploding out of our TV screens 24 hours a day. Therefore as I will state later, as kids we had a very low level of consciousness and simply absorb whatever was in front of us. We needed to be told right from wrong. However if we were neglected by our parents we never had this in any significant way. Therefore the task you have to do for me is this: You have to make a commitment to guard and protect your mind from all filth.

     Since you are self absorbed which usually comes with a slew of other character flaws. It has most likely caused you to lead a semi charmed kind of life. You may have had no significant external sources of good pure attention and love. Maybe not even from your parents, so therefore for now in the short term you must immediately terminate all filthy comedies, rap songs, and relationships with toxic people. On top of this you must fill yourself up with positive music, movies, preachers, and personal development coaches. You may be so filled with the toxic filth of society that it actually may cause you mental pain to pull yourself away from it.

     Remember none of this means you are abnormal etc. Tens of millions of people are suffering in silence as I write this. You are truly a child of God, normal and beautiful. You will immediately start to change and become a better person as you rid your mind of all the garbage and filth coming into it. It is interesting how no one ever asks me, what exactly should I stop watching. Everyone knows what is bad for them etc. Yet they were almost in a trance like state watching and viewing destructive filth on end. Just taking this simple step will reform you significantly, you will start to fill your soul up with goodness and become more loving and caring then you ever were before. However your journey is just beginning.

3. Now your relentless commitment to personal development coupled with your forfeiture of negative media, and indulgence in positive media will start to have a significant effect on you. As you get better your interactions with people and places. will become happier and healthier. Your conscious mind will now have a lot to work with as you now know a lot about personal development. Your mind will even make connections between information so you can start to create and invent yourself. The masters like Wayne Dyer and Tony Robbins will guide you through it. As you become a better person, the stress on your mind will be greatly reduced. Your brain will now have a file that has a lot of knowledge with regards to being a good person, and it can easily search this or think about this for answers, instead of expending large amounts of energy taking stabs in the dark. Also as you become a better person you will be able to make new and better friendships. Your trail of failed relationships and bad friendships which caused your brain endless amounts of anxiety and worry will start to fade away and be replaced with healthy, loving and caring relationships. A trail of fond memories and potentially exciting moments in the future will occupy your brain.

      With new loving relationships in your life, and with your mind having a lot more knowledge on how to act right your life will improve greatly. Your mind will expend a lot less energy worried about past failed relationships and a lot more time experiencing happy moments which fuel your energy. As a note do not say to yourself, that since the happy moments I had when I was a child just happened there is something unnatural or weird about willing important and beautiful memories into your life. Remember when you were a child your level of consciousness was a lot less. You never had the level of thinking and will power you have right now. Now that you are an adult with a high level of consciousness and will power you should use this to your advantage. Will great moments and great memories. Value and cherish your beautiful friends and family. If you show the will power to go out there and do it, God will manifest the happy experiences for you. I sincerely believe if you take a step toward happiness God will make the way for you. You got to take the step though!

4. Remember when you were at the stage where your life felt out of control you began to associate even going out with negative and painful feelings. You started to enjoy staying at home and being in the house because it was safe. You knew you couldn't get hurt at home. Now that you are a new person absolutely committed to personal development, and now that you are using your will power and positivity to create great moments and friends the negative association of going out should fade. You should start to rack up positive and happy experiences by going out. Remember God has mapped every moment of your life and it is his will you have these experiences! Enjoy them! You should start to look forward to and get excited about going out with friends and creating happy and healthy experiences of love and friendship. These happy experiences as they build up will create a huge and awesome file in your brain called happy experiences. These will energise you and make you excited, and give you energy which will spill over into your professional life too. Your brain finds it harder to dwell on past negative experiences as the newer more exciting experiences of happiness, love and friendship are all the more awesome!

5. KEEP The momentum going! Don't slack on your laurels once you see a large improvement in your life. Keep going, keep building, keep your mind towards abundance. Keep moving remember the righteous man's thoughts are toward plenty as it says in the Holy Bible.  In Islam Muslims often say God is great. Remember if you truly believe God is great then do and achieve great things. Keep the momentum going, remember happiness isn't a place, its a way of life, THERE IS NO WAY TO HAPPINESS, HAPPINESS IS THE WAY!

6. As you start to not only achieve a normal life but rather an exceptional life from your commitment to personal development, and clean living your mind will no longer feel that their is something "wrong" with you. Your mind will start to feel you are not only normal but that you are exceptional! your self esteem and self respect will began to solidify. Arrogant boasts as a result of deep seated feelings of inadequacy will no longer be necessary. As the world acknowledges your exceptional quality and character. You will become calm and relaxed. Your previous experiences of pain and misery will keep you humble. Remember your commitment to personal development also means a commitment to humility. God is now showering his blessings on you and you must remain committed to God's way in order for the blessings to continue. Now that your own mind has declared you exceptional your mind has now stopped relentlessly searching itself and absorbing junk from the outside world to heal you, or just as bad absorbing junk music and movies from the outside world to take your mind off painful memories from your past.  

     Remember your body heals you when you are wounded, your mind also tries its darn best to heal you when it feels something is mentally wrong with you. You do not will or even notice your body healing itself, similarly you may not even feel your sub conscious mind expending large amounts of energy trying to heal you. This is another release of massive energy as your mind is no longer obsessed with you, and healing you, and sucking in massive amounts of useless information to find answers, you are calm and at peace. Your intelligence and focus explode because now your mind is operating at 100%. Your wealth and happiness explode. Your absolute commitment to personal development and willingness to create happy and positive experiences has given you a windfall of benefits. Remember now you are no longer self centered as your mind is not trying to heal you anymore. Now is your moment to get awesome blessings by helping others! Now you are probably pretty wealthy due to being focused and energetic.

7. Helping others and giving back to others will be an awesome experience, you are no longer obsessed with fixing yourself you are now obsessed with helping others and do not think of yourself much anymore. There is no need to think about yourself anymore. Would you spend time thinking about fixing a car that was running perfectly? Obviously not! as a mechanic as soon as a car is fixed you start to think about fixing the next car!  Now life gets even better, because previously you filled yourself up with love through experiencing positive stimulus from religious preachers or good poems and other positive stimuli. Now this is all well and good, however at the stage where you become a giver you start to receive direct positive stimuli. People who are directly benefiting from you start to give you love and appreciation. Your soul becomes filled in with more love and goodness.


      As said before what comes out of you is what's inside of you. As your soul starts to get even more filled up with love and happiness, love and happiness start to come out of you even more, you become an even better person. Giving back to others is fundamental to experiencing and creating true love and affection between human beings and to win God's favour. You are now far from being self centered, arrogant or narcissistic. Most of your time is spent thinking about the well being of others and your energy level has exploded. Remember THIS IS A LIFE LONG COMMITMENT. They say Solomon was the wisest man who ever lived and he had a relentless commitment to learning and knowledge. He would say choose knowledge over Gold and Silver. The beautiful words of the Holy Quran command us to learn from cradle to grave.

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5 ways to know if someone is being racist against you!

Indeed.

     Now speaking as an older guy around 30 years old I have seen those Sidney Poitier movies where as an impeccably dressed man of color with a tremendous education Poitiers character is treated with outright disdain. It doesn't take a genius to realize that this is racism. However not all instances of perceived or real instances of racism are this obvious. Sometimes it is not actually racism as someone claims it is. Also sometimes it is racism and you decide its not. I have listed a ten step checklist for you to ask yourself if it actually is racism you have experienced. 

1. Dress standards: Are you dressed according to the standard of the local population. For example, when I was in South Korea my Blond haired blue eyed friend was dressed quite shabbily on his first day there. He soon realized that his casual dress for the Australian outback was not acceptable in a metropolitan Korean city and soon changed his dress. When he started to look more polished the Koreans stopped looking at him in a negative way. So make sure your standard of hygiene and dress are up to par with the local population. A 1919 British Mustache and a dress shirt with Velcro sneakers may be awesome from where your from, but it may look gross to people in your new adopted place of living. Make sure you conform to the standards of the place you live in all manor of hygiene and dress.

2. Behavioral standards: In some countries its okay to be crass and aggressive while other countries are more subtle with different traditions. Therefore make sure you are not coming off like an over aggressive obnoxious or arrogant asswhole  Be extra conscious of this and have someone tell you if you are, if you have been known to have ass- whole tendencies in the past. I knew a man who told me Germans were racist because they would not respond to his gregarious nature. Once I observed him, I realized it was quite easy to tell that the bases of his gregarious nature was an all consuming arrogant swagger. He did not approach people in that friendly manner because he was inherently loving and friendly. It was because he was arrogant, and his gregarious nature was a way of him showing others how socially superior he was. Therefore Germans were not really racist, he was just an arrogant jerk. So be careful about this one. Best to err on the side of being quiet, humble and soft spoken. These are generally universally recognized signs of decency and good behavior. 

3. Look clean. You may be clean, and well dressed, however what your wearing may look dirty to others. Make sure you look clean, that your beard is meticulously shaped and that facial hair is not scraggly looking. Also make sure your haircut is of a high quality. Looking clean is as important as actually being clean. People who look dirty and dress dirty usually never get any respect. 

4. Watch out what you are talking about. You may be rubbing the person the wrong way. You may go up to a blond women and say I just saw Hell-boy it's the best movie ever! She may walk away angrily and you may think! Racism. However she may just be a German who is sensitive about the Nazi past. Since Hell-boy discusses that topic you may have simply rubbed her the wrong way. Make sure you talk about neutral topics until you know the person more. Especially there history and background. 

5. Do not have a positive or negative prejudice for anyone. Do not assume because someone is black that they are like Barack Obama or if they are white, that they are racist. You may have a prejudice that all white people are racist. So when you approach someone who is white they may pick up on this right away and out of frustration may simply walk away. Me being a Muslim male have had this happen to me as well. I have had women prejudge me, and assume I was a male chauvinist before even knowing me. At this time I would just walk away, since the human mind wants to see what it wants to see, they may interpret my walking away as another chauvinistic action. However I actually walked away because I did not want to deal with someone who possesses a prejudice against Muslims. Similarly do not have a positive prejudice towards certain people, try to love people because they deserve it and its whats inside your heart. Not because you associate them with your favorite athlete or Hollywood actor. 

     If you have demonstrated competence in all of these things and yet someone is still giving you a hard time it may actually be racism, however I still suggest you don't get offended. Wait awhile and give the person a second chance, they may simply be having a bad day etc. Even if it turns out it is racism, not to worry, getting offended will only show them that their racism has power over you. Keep away from them and move on in your life. Also be kind and give love. 

Posted by Insightful 2013
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Happiness: 10 ways to have a happy day, Everyday!

SMILEY FACE!

    Some of the greatest writers on the issues of spirituality have come to the conclusion that those who know how to condition themselves to feel good and upbeat everyday can become great successes. In fact some say that this is the fundamental difference between a winner and a looser. Now why is this so one may ask? Well because if you waste your time and energy on negative thoughts and ideas not only do you waste valuable energy focusing on something that is bad for you, it also drastically decreases your energy levels. You could become up to 50% less productive then someone who is always conditioned to be happy. Now to loose a day are two may not be the end of the world. However if you are continuously in negative states for large portions of your life, the effect those feelings have on your chances of success are monumental. That is why it is important to make a commitment to personal development now!


     Since millions and millions of us find ourselves taking pills or drugs, and having other addictions just to cope it's important to know how to focus on happiness as a way of life. We must look at practical and pragmatic things we can do to make ourselves happy every single day. The narrow scope of my article will focus on just those things in the general order of the day.

1. Before you go to bed make sure your geared toward getting a good night sleep. It's very important that you sleep well because a good night sleep is super healthy for your mind body and spirit. Do not listen to anything that pumps you up in the evening because it will keep you up. Similarly avoid all sugar content etc. Make sure your mind is peaceful and serene as well. Focus on happy and relaxing thoughts. You do not want to toss and turn in sub conscious anguish as you sleep. Remember make a consciousness effort to be calm and relaxed before sleep, and make it a ritual so your mind gets accustomed to it. That way your mind will be conditioned to sleep at that specific time. Try to sleep early enough that you don't have to deal with the excessive pressure of waking up early. In other words do not stay up till 3am if you know you have to be up by 9am. Do not depend on the alarm clock, use the alarm clock as a fail safe mechanism, not something that jolts you out of bed. Remember having a good night sleep and sleeping with positive and life fulfilling thoughts will leave you pumped up and excited for the next day.

2. Surround yourself with positive things in your room and living space. Our conscious and sub conscious minds are absorbing things in all the time. We spend hours of our lives in our homes and rooms. It's important that the people and pictures you see in your room are uplifting. For example if you put a picture up of your favourite rapper, Ask yourself is that productive? does this rapper preach about death and violence or happiness and joy? In other words put pictures up of your heroes, sporting legends, spiritual teachers or great intellectuals. Another great thing to put up would be religious sayings such as "do unto others" etc. Being constantly surrounded by these positive and awesome words and pictures will give you that energy boost you need to be ultra productive. It will also condition your mind to associate your room with happiness. Your sleep will be easy and well as when you wake, seeing Michael Jordon slam dunk a Basketball or Lionel Messi dribble a Football will infuse you with energy.

    Also there is a lesson here. A lot of people would say come on bro! I don't want to look like a nutcase! people may see my room and think what's wrong with you, why do you need all that. Remember be humble, say to yourself I am a normal well adjusted human being full of love and positivity. However I want that extra edge in energy for me to truly reach my awesome potential and I am willing to do anything it takes and humble myself and not give too much importance to what others think. This is key, you got to go through with this stuff no matter what people think or say. You have to be mentally tough! and if your not you need to get mentally tough but I'll leave that to another article.

3. After you wake up, make sure your room is in order, and that you can get on with your day. It's important that you dress your best and feel your best. That means adopt the standard of where you are. For example where your from a dress shirt, mustache and mop top may be the epitome of manliness. However ask yourself is it the same standard where you are now? For example in some societies deodorant is not necessary but in others it is an absolute must. One way to throw yourself off the vibrational frequency of happiness and create an awkward environment for yourself is to dress and look below standard. Generally most good people will not judge you for not being the most attractive person in the world. However with regards to controlled variables prepare to be judged. Keep yourself clean and wear awesome and fitting clothes. You will notice an immediate difference. Make being clean, and dressing well a way of life.

     Do not, I repeat do not listen to those people who say, that your being superficial! Some of the greatest spiritual teachers of all time demanded proper hygiene and clean clothing and appearance. I know certainly my religion tells me that. Also how a person carries themselves on the outside tells a lot about what's going on on the inside. For example how many homeless people do you know who smell and dress nice? Zero you say! Well you may say most homeless people are mentally ill, or sick! That's exactly my point, not to be harsh on the homeless but we associate in our minds mental illness and sickness to people who are shabbily dressed and smell bad! So make sure you are the opposite.

4. Do affirmations, what you say to yourself and what you think about are key. It may happen every now and then that your mind may drift to negative and useless thoughts. About a past that is long gone and over to everyone else in the world but you. You got to make sure you continuously train yourself to ask positive questions. Questions that continue to stimulate you towards positivity.

     Thank God for technology, these days most if not all modern Cell Phones will have voice memo, if not buy a voice recorder. Use it to say to yourself positive affirmations, or even lines in movies that Pump You up. The more you do it, the more these affirmations will become tattooed on your brain.

5. As these affirmations will get tattooed on your brain so will negative stuff. If you don't have the desire to be a pimp or a murderer, and I think that's all of us then don't listen to filth that promotes that garbage. If you listen to that trash enough it will get tattooed on your brain and become apart of your sub conscious mind. Sooner or later these negative thoughts may completely pollute your mind, and cause you to behave in ways that are simply not you! So guard your mind, I know it sounds cliche but I am being honest. Remember trash for your mind is like trash for your body. You got to ask yourself is enjoying the taste of a Big Mac for 4 minutes worth a lifetime of poor health and an early death? Similarly is watching filthy movies, or listening to offensive music, worth it? Is a 3 minute song with a catchy beat worth a lifetime of trying to clear the garbage out of your head, and sub conscious impulses that lead you to do things that really aren't you!?

6. Use yelling and shouting, and aggressive movements to keep you pumped up and in state of happiness. I know some of the Muslim faith pray in congregation. Should you go to the prayers with droopy shoulders void of any excitement or say to yourself now is my chance to talk to GOD! I am pumped for this! use the prayer to put yourself in a happy and receptive mood! God will hear you if you ask him with all your heart and mind! So use your body, play sports, and do aggressive movements that shake you up. There is no way easier to get depressed then to droop down your shoulders and have a frown. Dream about the person of your dreams walking up to you with a smile and saying hey love! whatever it takes as every happy moment is a victory.

7. Keep God first, now wait you may say, I'm a Hindu or I'm a Buddhist, well it really does not matter. Whatever religion or non religion you belong too and whomever you worship keep them first. I find a belief in God to be one of the most relaxing and positive beliefs possible. Also to you atheists out there keep in mind you do not have to be right all the time! Believing in God is a belief that is good for your mind and soul so believe if it makes you feel better! Sometimes its not about what the facts are or what is right but rather what helps our lives.

8. Avoid "Brawling", now what the heck do I mean by brawling. Well brawling is a phrase that I have personally coined so it's mine. What Brawling is, is unnecessary fighting or being argumentative. Brawling is based on the ego and can be both negative or positive. Okay okay, so negative brawling makes sense but how do you brawl in the positive you may ask?! Well have you ever met those guys who come up to you and say HEY!! How's! IT GOING! On the surface it appears they are being really nice and friendly but something just doesn't feel right? Well the reason it just doesn't feel right is because their super friendly attitude is based off their ego, and their sub conscious mind feels they are superior to you. That's why it turns you off. Their sub conscious mind is saying "look at this lowly person!" I'll show them just how cool and superior I am! This rubs people the wrong way. So please avoid at all costs negative and positive brawling. That is acts based on a sub conscious or conscious feeling of superiority over others that is based on your ego. Rather whether you want to give loving constructive criticism or be extra talkative, friendly and gregarious make sure your inner and sub conscious emotion is based on love, friendship and kindness. That way the positive vibration you give out, will speak more then any words. Remember 90% of all communication is non verbal. When you do this people will feel your goodness and they will instantly respond. You can manifest friends and relationships this way, that will last. When you are extra friendly and gregarious your loving vibration will instantly emotionally connect to the one your speaking too, and if they themselves have love and goodness inside will connect right back too you.

      As a note something else that is beautiful about this disposition is that you can spot evil people and avoid them. Ever heard the phrase "like attracts alike" That's it my friend! Your loving caring disposition will attract the same in the sub conscious of another despite what they are trying to show you consciously! Ever know someone in a relationship and you say what ever happened to Sam, or Julie, and they say! He/She wasn't who I thought they were, they were complete douches! Well, this is because you were fooled by their conscious demeanor, you thought the act they displayed was them, and maybe your own vibrations were also negative. Remember like attracts like and you manifested that energy in your life so maybe your no mother Teresa either! Okay so if your attracting negative people into your life take a good look at yourself and make sure your inside becomes more full of love and joy. Eliminating the negative people from your life is one sure fire way to make sure every day you have is full of love and happiness. You must first be filled with love and happiness to attract that into your life.

9. Give to people, give people your time, energy, and things of value. By giving to people, you are reaffirming your own identity as a good and loving person. You are also helping others and deriving the self respect that comes from being useful. However I would say most importantly when you give to others it shows your thoughts are focused on others. One of the ways to make sure you feel bad is to be self obsessed. This brings me to point number 10.

10. Finally think about other people, do not be a self centered narcissist, being a self centered narcissist is one sure fire way to guarantee you are unhappy, and good people will pick up on this vibe from you and avoid you like the plague. A way to definitely force yourself to think of others is to give. To give means you must put time, and effort in trying to know what someone wants, you must focus on the means to get something for someone else. When you stop obsessing over yourself you realise the world has moved on from your problem, and it is just you who cares about it. To everyone else it is buried in the past. So make sure to focus on other people's well being. If you have a wife or girlfriend, or boyfriend or husband, make sure you get them something they love, and it will make your relationship all the more stronger.

     Luckily for us, there may be 100 more ways or 1000 more ways to ensure you have a productive, positive and happy day everyday. However these points I feel are the basics. Mastery comes from doing something which appears easy over, and over again till you become exceptional at it. In other words while reading and having these points outlined to you, may make it seem easy, you got to do it! You got to stick to it and keep it up!. There is always a new way to design your room to make it even more conducive to happiness. There are always new styles and ways of dress as well. New technologies to help you on your way, so keep at it! Good luck I sincerely wish you the best!

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Jews do they rule the world? The evidence.

   Who believes in the theory that Jews control the world?    

Jews pulling the strings? Hardly.

     The theory that a cabal of Jews control world affairs has been around since well as long as I can remember. The theory seems to float around however and appear among diverse groups of people.  What brings Neo-Nazi's, Right wing Eastern Europeans, and Radical Muslims together is a strong belief in this idea that Jewish people control world affairs. However this theory is not limited to just radicals. You can hear it hinted at in posh conversations with so called enlightened Englishmen from Oxford and Cambridge. Also from Middle Class America. The theory is widespread.

     However is it true? Do Jews control world affairs, are other races and groups subjugated to the awesome financial and cultural power of the Jews? My simple answer is no.There is a verse in the Holy Quran that says speak the truth even if it is against your own family. So I will attempt to speak the truth by debunking certain smaller theories that fit into the whole conspiracy.

     Jews run Hollywood? True or False?

     We've heard this one before from many people. The Jews control and finance Hollywood and spread their liberal lefty propaganda, or their anti Arab or anti White Christian propaganda. First of all, whether the Jews control Hollywood or not is not an established fact. I personally do not believe the Jews control Hollywood. My favourite movies of all time, Braveheart Produced by Mel Gibson need I say more. Dances with Wolves, produced and starring Kevin Costner etc. both won academy awards, both starred and were directed by Gentiles. The film that won the Academy Award this year for best picture Argo starred a Gentile Ben Affleck and was produced by George Clooney another non Jew. My favourite movie of the year was Batman the Dark Knight rises directed by Christopher Nolan starring Christian Bale again two Englishmen and Gentiles. However I do not need to list the powerful non Jews in Hollywood they are too numerous to list. All that I am saying is there are plenty of super powerful non Jews in Hollywood past and present.

    The superiority logic test.

     Also there is a logic test involved with the idea that Jews run Hollywood. This is an example. Say I am a Muslim and I want to hire only Muslims for my movie making business. If they are corrupt and incompetent the business will fail, because ultimately people can spot an inferior product. Whether or not the conspiracy works depends on the product being good. However if the product is good, then their is no conspiracy at all because the people doing the work are very good at it and they would have been hired anyways regardless of if they were Muslim or not. In other words Hollywood is an awesome and a superior product. The Jews involved are brilliant and have created the most superior and lucrative film industry the world has ever known. We want them to keep doing what they are doing! However like I said, James Cameron, George Lucas, Quinton Tarantino all non Jews! Though what my logic test says is there can never be a true conspiracy to control because you have to be competent in the first place, and if you are then it wasn't your religion or ethnicity in the first place or a conspiracy that got you the job. It was the fact that you are awesome at what you do.

Even if Jews did run Hollywood!

     So what! Big deal Hollywood is not an all controlling Messiah that has its grip on mankind. After watching True Lies I did not feel this uncontrollable need to fight Arab terrorists. I watch about 3 Hollywood films a year! While Hollywood is very influential it surely can't lead you to world domination! Hollywood is a big industry but America has 1000's of big industries. The number one Wood maker in America is probably as rich as certain Hollywood big wigs. Also it is common for certain ethnicity's to dominate certain fields. Not because of racism or conspiracy but because of common sense. Imagine your a Jewish guy and you build a studio in 1910, your probably going to hire other Jews because that's what your comfortable with and that's what you know. Also Jews are not involved in Hollywood because they want to Brainwash the world, they are involved in Hollywood because of money. Theirs a saying "Ain't no business like show business". Show business makes money! and if your smart you'll get involved in show business. Hollywood is just one thing that could potentially influence lives, Hip Hop music influences millions of lives. India's Bollywood does too, so does the Church and the Mosque, and none of these things are run by Jews.

Outside of the Media and Banking there is no conspiracy that Jews control anything. No one is saying the Jews have conspired to control the Semi Conductor market!

     Thankfully in this Internet era, all we have to do to see who runs the most powerful corporations is search for the company and its board of directors. When you look at the boards of Exxon Mobile, or Northrup Grumman you see not one Jew. Looking at the boards of the biggest companies the world over you realise a pattern. Just how little Jewish representation is. Outside of just two industries! Banking and Media Jews are barely represented! America has 1000's of industries that lead the world, and this so called global conspiracy to rule the world comes because Jews supposedly control banking and Media! So basically this entire Jewish conspiracy of world domination rests on their control of two industries banking and media. Destroy these two legs and this conspiracy falls apart.

     Jews control other powerful media such as Newspapers and Television news.

     The idea that Jews control Newspapers is a novel one since Newspapers for all intensive purposes are now obsolete. Most news is now from the Internet. As most people know the computer industry is thoroughly controlled by Gentiles. Whether it was Steve Case the creator of AOL, Bill Gates at the helm of Microsoft or Steve Jobs of Apple. Sergei Brin of Google. The Internet has changed the game so the question as to whether Jews controlled newspapers is obsolete. The media guys are now in the pocket of the computer guys. With this said in my opinion the Jews did not control the newspapers anyways. Same with television, the founder of CNN was Ted Turner a Gentile, Fox news owner Rupert Murdoch another Gentile. As a note the conspiracy theorists will label anyone even with a Jewish grandfather apart of this conspiracy. Or with a German sounding name. There are many people with German sounding names or English names such as Goldsmith that are not Jewish. Also America is a land of mixed European Races. It would only make sense that allot of Americans have mixed in with someone who was Jewish in their past. It does not prove anything.

    Jews control the banks and money supply? Really?

      Do Jews really control the banks and the money supply? It must be understood that wealth really comes from resources not banks. It is not printed money that is wealth. It is "stuff" that is wealth. The guy who controls the money may control the value of the stuff theoretically and have power. However ultimately the guy who has the stuff rules the world. I'll give you an example. Your in a room with a man with a billion dollars. He has all the money and you have all the stuff, food, shelter and water. He says, "I control all your money, so therefore I say all your stuff is worth 1 cent! So give it over for 1 cent!". You say "one drink of water is worth a billion dollars!" He says "absurd! Ripoff!" Who do you think is gonna win that one? Obviously after 2 weeks he'll give you a trillion dollars if he had it! Just for a sip of water. So the man who rules is the man with the "stuff". The Rockefeller's of the world. Rockefeller was a Protestant by the way. The Anglo America companies that have been dominating the world for the past 400 years have the "stuff". Obviously Jews don't they were destroyed in Europe by the Holocaust, and only got Israel in 1947. These companies were established and dominating entire continents 200 years before that! The guy with the money is indeed powerful, and is the second in line, but the man with the stuff rules the world, and it ain't the Jews with the stuff. I don't believe that Jews control the banking system anyhow but even if they did it would not give them world domination. Indeed they may dominate in some of New York's biggest banks, but so what? The Arabs have trillion dollar portfolio's, the Chinese have 2 trillion in cash. The Jews are just another significant group with some money. Far from Global domination.

The Holocaust

      People who believe in this conspiracy may believe the Holocaust never happened. However no one debates about whether the Nazi's were anti Semitic or whether they persecuted Jews. Everyone believes that. The fact that the Jewish people of Europe were decimated by fascism is pretty well accepted. That European Jews had to rebuild their lives in America is pretty well known as well. The point still stands, with American and British companies ruling the world in 1945, how could poor Jewish immigrants end up ruling the world in 2013? answer they don't.

     Jews control America through AIPAC and America is defenseless to this tiny little lobby.

     Ohhh AIPAC and little old America. Poor little hyper power America is bullied by the big bad AIPAC warriors! lol sorry this is the most absurd. Supposedly some super powerful lobby of Jews pushes around the PM of Great Britain, President of France and America. Really? obviously not! Wait you say" The Iraq war was for Jews right? Wrong. Let me put it this way, Israel has about 4 major enemies in the Middle East, Iran, Hamas, Hezbollah, and Syria. Now name one of these enemies that America put boots on the ground to fight. Name one enemy here that Americans shed their own blood for. That's right the answer is 0! Yes Americans' have given a crap load of lip service against these guys, as they have against the North Koreans, the Venezuelans and others who antagonise America's allies. However the moral of this story is clear. Americans don't die for others. Now you say what about SADDAM!, Saddam was George W Bush's personal enemy, and America did Iraq for America, Israel and America's interests may have overlapped here, but America did not fight Iraq for Israel. If they loved Israel so much they would have fought Iran by now which is 100 times more of a threat to Israel then Iraq ever was. Iraq was for the all important stuff! oil, and resources. Colin Powell admitted it himself.

     America's enemies compared to Israel's enemies.

     Now lets look at the difference here, America's enemies, the Taliban, Saddam, and Osama Bin Laden and his Islamist militants. America spent 2 trillion dollars, over 15,000 soldiers dead, and a million wounded! to hunt down Osama and defeat Saddam. When it comes to the enemies of the Jews the Americans talk, or give Moral support, as they are to the Saudis and Israeli's who are supporting the Syrian rebels. When it comes to Americas enemies you get Zero Dark thirty and Seal Team 6. Trillion dollar wars to the ends of the earth. Hamas and Hezbollah sitting on Israels borders everyday killing Israelis have not been touched in over a decade long war on Terror. Yet the Americans and the west are still fighting the Taliban still hunting Al Qaeda etc. See the difference. Does the Jewish lobby control America? Hardly. Even if America does support Israel its obvious why. Because it benefits American domination of the world. Israel keeps the Arabs from uniting, and keeps them weak. If anything Israel is America's slave soldier. 

   Pakistan and Turkey have outright hostility toward Israel yet remain Americas friends.

Turkey and Pakistan are Frenemies with Israel at best, yet America remains friends with them because they still support America.

9/11 done by Jews and the Protocols of the elders of Zion.

     The idea that no Jews died that day is ridiculous. The CEO of Cantor Fitzgerald's brother died and he was Jewish. If a CEO's brother was not warned then what was the point of the so called warning. This conspiracy is bull crap. Finally the protocols of the Elders of Zion is a racist forgery. The idea of bearded hook-nose Jews getting together in order to find out how to rule the world is racist and offensive. Many people who take pleasure in this theory are also Hippocrates who scream racism at the slightest joke about their own community. On ten minutes of reading that forgery you know right away its complete bull. If you were smart enough to rule the world you sure as heck wouldn't be dumb enough to put your plan in a book or protocols.

   Finally why does this theory of Jews running the world persist?

      It persists because Jews are a small minority with a very high profile. It helps that in nations and communities where there is joblessness, corruption and humiliation a scape goat is found. It's those damned Jews! That's why my country is a slum, or that's why I take bribes, or don't care about poor people etc. Also If I really did rule the world I would probably be smart enough to use the Jews as a scapegoat. For example if I was an American administrator and people were mad as hell about the Iraq war, it would be pretty smart to say! Heck I have no power! It was those dog gone Jews who pushed me into to it!. While enjoying record oil profits. Or with 9/11, say to your own people, it was those darn Arabs! then say to the Arabs it was those darn Jews! What do you get? You get off Scott free and have Arabs and Jews at each others throats while your in the South of France on your Yacht.

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